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Who/What is a
of the most frequently asked questions during psychic
readings is "Is he/she my soul mate?" But, what
do people really mean by the term SOUL MATE anyway?
I think generally
there is a very rosy and idealistic view of what constitutes "soul
mateship". Something along the lines of - knight in shining armour
meets beautiful princess, they fall deeply in love, have beautiful and
perfect children together and they all live happily ever after!
When you compare
that rosy image with your "knight", who has the manners of
Shrek or your "princess" who turns out to be your "mother-in-law"
in disguise, and the kids who seem to be the spawn of hell, it's no
wonder you start to ask questions. Like, is it too late to take them
back and get a refund? or "Thank you, I'll let you know - Next!"
But, that's all
part of life, that's reality. In movies you may be able to edit out
the f.arts and burps, the arguments, the trip ups, spills or mishaps,
but in real life - you live it all, including the "out-takes".
The process of living, changes you, it moulds your personality, your
expression of yourself, maybe even creates layers of protection to keep
out all the nasty bits you can't cope with. But, that's why you're here,
now, alive - to interact and to relate.
me back to the original question about soul mates.
To explain this
better, first, imagine yourself as a bright and pure crystal, perfect
in every way. You are born into the world and dropped in the ocean,
where your journey leads you into many places.
Sometimes you may
lie in stagnant pools, at other times you are swept along with currents
and eddies. You are buffeted or scraped by boulders and maybe bits get
chipped off in the process. Along the way, too, you pick up debris,
then some mud that sticks and forms a crusty layer. Gradually bit by
bit you find that you've changed since you were born, the shiny crystal
is still there in the core, but now there are layers of accretions from
all those things you experienced on your journey.
What you need now
is something to chip off all those bits that don't belong. Something
you can roll along with and bump up against, and in the process wear
away the added layers.
You could try doing
this with a big, hard, tough lump of granite (and some do) which will
probably chip off huge chunks and very rapidly, but which might also
make dents in the lovely crystal inside. More than likely you end up
looking like a battered old rock and get thrown back out to sea - but
hey, there are plenty more pebbles on the beach!
You could look for
a soft and smooth coated pebble to rumble along with - but if all it's
got is soft layers of clay, how will it get through your crusty layers?
What impact is it really going to have on you? More likely, it will
crack at your first butt!
Your ideal "pebble"
would be one that has similar qualities to yourself, the same level
of hardness in it's layers, so that when you bump up against each other,
you both help each other scrape off your unwanted extra loads, to reveal
the crystal at the core. It will have some sticky out bits just as you
do and as you roll along together, you gradually chip off and smooth
away the layers, rounding each other's edges and polishing the beauty
of each other.
This is essentially
what a soul mate is and does. They are a perfect partner in that any
interactions with them ultimately lead towards a positive and mutually
beneficial effect. Soul mates "know" each other, can see the
perfect core underneath the layers and are happy to rub up alongside
each other, because their inner strength matches each other's.
They allow barriers
and protective layers to be released and help each other to BE who they
really are inside.
It is possible to
have more than one soul mate, but not usually at the same time. Soul
mates are "similar" souls, similar enough, yet different enough
to be effective in mutual growth and shared love. It is common to have
known each other in a previous life in some way, which is why there
is often an instant "knowing" that this is the "one".
Soul mates may
be with you for life, or for a season, but you will know them because
they are there for a reason.
Hargreaves 7th February 2005)
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