The 3 Keys
you have a goal, a desire, a want, a need - how do you achieve
BEGINS THE PROCESS
your thoughts and feelings, which go out before you, drawing those
things to you that reinforce your essential beliefs.
- you feel worthless and unloved, walking around with a long face,
hoping that someone will take pity on you. Other people "pick
up" your signals way in advance, cross the road, stop and
talk to the person who is smiling and welcoming. You carry on
with a reinforced belief that no one cares and "happy"
things happen to other people!
you love yourself and walk around with a smile on your face. Life
feels good and everyone you meet along the way wants to stop and
talk to you. You carry on with a reinforced belief that life is
good and other people care about you.
yourself a goal to achieve, you can just "believe" your
goal into existence. If you totally and absolutely believe that
whatever is needed to achieve that goal will manifest itself,
then your goal will be achieved. The trick is in how well you
"believe" - this requires absolute and utter conviction,
absolutely no shadow of doubt, not the tiniest "if".
It requires you to "know" the goal is true as sure as
if you are seeing it now. It needs not just your thoughts but
also your feelings aligned in "believing" that the goal
already exists for you.
This is not
the same as "wanting". Wanting is a lack of your goal,
wanting is the belief that you don't have your goal. Wanting pushes
away your goal. Did you ever get told as a kid "I want, never
gets". This is very, very true!
You have to
believe you can have your goal, not just want it.
belief with the direction of the goal.
If you move
towards your goal with purpose, it means that you not only believe
you are going to achieve your goal but you are actually walking
towards it and doing the necessary actions to help it into existence.
- say your goal is for a relationship with a compatible partner,
someone you are empathic with, who has similar values, who shares
similar goals and that has some interests in common. Belief in
action would be demonstrated by first believing you are worthy
of such a partner, then making a list of exactly what attributes
you consider to be compatible with yours, rather than merely dreaming
of the knight in shining armour or the fair damsel waiting for
her prince! It would also be helped a step further, if you also
put yourself in places where you might meet suitable candidates,
instead of sitting at home watching romantic movies on TV.
- DOING THE RIGHT THING IN THE RIGHT PLACE AT THE RIGHT TIME
step of achievement is timing. You might have a goal, which despite
your best efforts, never comes to fruition. Perhaps you have an
"ideal home in the country" as your goal. You spend
your spare time planning, visualising, searching, but it just
hasn't happened yet.
Did you ever
a put a time on your goal? Did you evaluate if the timing was
realistic? Without a date, it leaves the commitment as a vague
idea. You've said to the universe - I'd like a new home, but not
said when it is to be delivered. So if there are any other things
conflicting with the "goal", it probably won't happen
until they've been dealt with first. For the goal to be reached,
it needs everyone's energy that might affect it or be affected
by it, committed to the same direction. Otherwise, it is like
a boat full of rowers all paddling in different directions! The
very act of naming the date, also highlights where there may be
likely conflicts that could delay your goal.
ACTION, TIMING = ACHIEVEMENT
So for achieving
a goal, it requires belief to bring the goal into existence,
action to align the energy towards the goal and timing
to fix the point at which the goal will be achieved.
As a final example, I'll illustrate this process with my 3 chooks.
Every day they get let out of their pen to free range. Every night
I lock them in for protection against predators. They enjoy "playing
out" but have got used to their "night time" routine.
When I go
to round them up of an evening, if I try and "herd"
them towards the pen, they usually go in every opposite direction
and all in different directions. My "want" is pushing
If I am too
early, or sometimes if there is a conflicting interest (just got
to dig up this last bit of compost) then I end up chasing them
round the compost heap until they are ready to go or I am done
chasing! The goal isn't reached because their energy is not going
in the same direction as mine or because the timing is not right.
I call to them and stride with purpose towards their pen at the
right time, they will generally follow to see what is interesting
where I am going. (Belief, action and timing working towards the
goal of 3 chooks tucked up for the night.)
IT, DEFINE WHEN IT WILL HAPPEN, STRIDE TOWARDS IT AND THEN ACHIEVE